Inability to Share in the Meaningful Achievements of Others

  • Good leaders always acknowledge the achievements of others on the high
    side rather than on the cheap. I suggest using the good china, cloth napkins, and real (not plastic) flatware.
  • Provide appropriate amounts and types of food and little, if any, alcohol.
    Don’t go down the potluck or BYO path.
  • Use appropriate, accurate, non-effusive public proclamations and pageantry.
  • Don’t make recipient(s) or attendees uncomfortable with your jokes or
    over-familiarity.
  • Don’t force recipients to speak or respond, but if they do speak, give them
    a prearranged, specific time limit.
  • If you give gifts, explain the protocol for opening them—immediately
    or later.
  • Be punctual, provide sufficient time (not too much or too little), and
    never before or immediately after a holiday.
  • Bad leaders use the opportunity to talk about themselves and new initiatives they want to launch. Don’t do as they do.
  • Vary the venue and format.
  • Don’t become event predictable.
  • Make every public and private occasion genuine, authentic, and one-of-a-kind.
  • Don’t overdo it or under do it.
  • Be careful of an open microphone or opportunities for others to vent
    their feelings and praise of a recipient. These occasions can get out of
    hand and negatively affect the purpose and spirit of the event.
  • If more than one person is providing public acknowledgment, coordinate
    comments of the speakers and give them a time limit for their comments.
  • Never use the occasion for veiled threats or criticizing others who have
    not achieved or who are not being formally acknowledged. When you do
    this, you create a high degree of angst, change the spirit of the occasion,
    cause attendees to exit prematurely, and expose your real agenda.
  • Without doubt, you have already seen or will encounter a leader who
    cannot acknowledge or share in the achievements of others. This must
    not be said of you.
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